How to Have a Prostate Orgasm

May 14, 2024

4 mins

What’s the Prostate?

The prostate is a small gland that is part of the male reproductive system. Roughly the size of a walnut, it is located just below the bladder and in front of the rectum. 

Its primary function is to secrete a fluid that makes up a significant portion of semen. This fluid nourishes and transports sperm during ejaculation. The prostate also contains muscle fibers that help expel semen during orgasm.

How Do You Find the Prostate?

The prostate can be found both externally and internally. Externally, it can be found by applying gentle pressure to the area of the perineum, the region between the scrotum and the anus.

Internally, the prostate is accessed via the rectum. To find it this way, a finger can be inserted about two inches into the rectum and towards the front of the body. The prostate feels like a small, round, and firm mass beneath the rectal wall.

What’s a Prostate Orgasm?

A prostate orgasm is a powerful and often longer lasting form of male climax that occurs through the stimulation of the prostate gland. Unlike a traditional penile orgasm, this kind of climax does not depend on direct penile touch. 

Prostate stimulation can be achieved manually using fingers or through specifically designed sex toys. The sensation is often described as a deep, all encompassing pleasure that lasts longer and feels more widespread compared to the intense, pinpointed feeling of a penile orgasm.

What Does a Prostate Orgasm Feel Like?

People who have experienced a prostate orgasm typically describe feelings of profound pleasure and an intense release that is both calming and energizing. This type of climax may involve rhythmic contractions of the pelvic muscles and can sometimes lead to a more substantial ejaculation. 

Many recount experiencing waves of pleasure spreading throughout their body, creating a unique and deeply satisfying sensation. For some individuals, this experience can be so intense that it results in multiple orgasms, setting it apart from the usual male climax.

What’s milking?

Prostate milking involves massaging the prostate until a milky fluid is released. This fluid, known as prostatic fluid, is essentially ejaculate without the sperm. During prostate stimulation, the release of this fluid indicates that you are nearing climax. 

Adding penile stimulation can enhance the pleasure and speed up the process. Prostate milking is also a term used for therapeutic prostate massage, which can help manage symptoms of prostate issues, a topic we will discuss further.

Are There Any Benefits to Having a Prostate Orgasm?

Yes, there are several benefits to having a prostate orgasm. Here are some of the key advantages:

• Enhanced pleasure: Prostate orgasms are often described as more intense and longer-lasting than traditional penile orgasms. This can lead to a deeper sense of sexual satisfaction.

• Improved sexual health: Regular prostate stimulation can enhance blood flow to the area, potentially improving overall prostate health and reducing the risk of prostate-related issues.

• Stress relief: Like other forms of sexual release, prostate orgasms can help reduce stress and promote relaxation through the release of endorphins and other feel-good hormones.

• Better ejaculations: Prostate stimulation can lead to stronger and more intense ejaculations, which some men find more satisfying.

• Increased sexual awareness: Exploring prostate stimulation can increase your understanding of your own body, leading to better sexual experiences and communication with partners.

• Potential health benefits: Some studies suggest that regular ejaculation, including through prostate stimulation, might reduce the risk of prostate cancer, although more research is needed in this area.

Overall, the benefits of prostate orgasms encompass both physical and emotional well-being, contributing to a more fulfilling sexual life.

Techniques to Have a Prostate Orgasm

If you’re curious about prostate orgasms, talk to your partner about trying it. Whether you’d like to be the giver or receiver, there are some tips to ensure safety and comfort, as the prostate is a sensitive area. 

Be sure to always use lube with butt play to avoid unwanted friction that can potentially cause microtears in the rectum. Here are some techniques that may help you have a prostate orgasm:

Using your fingers

• The “come hither”: Gently insert a finger into the anus with your palm facing towards the belly button. Curl your finger into a “come hither” motion in the same direction. Repeat the motion while gradually increasing speed as the pleasure builds.

• Circling: Run your finger all around the prostate, circling the entire perimeter of the gland. Switch up the pressure and speed until you find the combo that feels best. 

• The doorbell: Gently press your finger against the outside of the prostate, as you would if you were ringing a doorbell. Experiment with different pressure or holding the press for long or short intervals.

• “Vibration”: Simulate the sensation of a vibrator by speeding up any of the fingering methods mentioned above.

Using toys 

• Prostate massagers: Vibrating prostate massagers come with multiple speed and pulse settings, allowing you to explore sensations and increase the intensity as you approach orgasm. Additionally, some prostate massagers feature an attached external stimulator to simultaneously pleasure the perineum, providing a comprehensive and highly pleasurable experience. 

•  Dildos: Depth is another area where toys excel, as manually reaching deeper areas can be challenging. Experimenting with different-sized anal toys or using a longer toy can help you achieve the desired depth.

Positions to try

• Doggy: 

If you’re going solo, get down on all fours and reach your arm between your legs to reach your anus. If this is uncomfortable, try going around your back. 

If you’re with a partner, have them kneel behind you while you’re on all fours.

• Legs up:

If you’re by yourself, lie on your back with your knees as close to your chest as possible. You can use one arm to hold your legs in place and the other to reach your prostate.

If there’s two of you, the receiver will lie in with both knees towards his chest and can use both hands to hold on. The giver can kneel in front and massage the prostate internally, externally, or even simultaneously.

• Face down:

If you’re going at it alone, lie face down with your arm rested behind you on your back. From this position, you should be able to reach your perineum and/or anus.

If you’ve got a partner to try this with, they can sit comfortably at your side while you lie face down with your arms at your sides while they gently massage your prostate. 

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